Example YouTube benchmarks : I'm not going through it all, but picking out some of the most demanding games currently there's 80 fps in God of War 1440p Ultra, 100 fps in Dying Light 2 1440p High, 80 fps in Spiderman Remastered 1440p v.high...
I run one at 1080p and can max out everything without a second thought and 60fps is occasionally the minimum (not average) on my most demanding games. While I'm sure it doesn't match up to the $1500 card in your signature, I'd hardly label it a "decent 1080p/60 fps/medium" card.
Besides, the OP's issue is that their benchmarks are below the average of benchmarks taken on the same components, not the average of the currently available graphics cards.