will i lose performance from a graphics card using a PCIe extender?

In theory, no. As long as it is of good quality; one that doesn't add impedance due to poor contacts or wiring. Here's someone that says he's done testing with risers/extenders: http://www.overclock.net/t/1427731/pci-express-extender-cables-benchmarked
These were tested a few years ago with a somewhat older system, but I imagine the results with modern cards and systems would still be the same.
 
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Notice that the author says he even daisy-chained the 300mm riser into the 200mm riser, and he still got nearly identical scores. Even an insignificantly bit higher in Firestrike than with direct to the slot.