benchmarks that I've found seem to indicate that upgrading to a single RTX 1080 from 2 GTX 1080s would offer, at best, marginally better performance or perhaps even no performance improvement
SLI. A few games supported it well enough to get about 70ish % fps improvement. Most other games averaged around 30-40%. And there are a few that actually did worse with sli enabled.
And now it's dead, or close enough not to be a thing anymore for any games released that use Vulcan or DX12. Leaving you with minimal choices of yesterday's DX11 titles.
So it doesn't really matter about the benchmarks, they are ancient history. Doesn't matter even if they prove that a single 3080 gets roughly the same fps as sli 1080's in a select few titles. What's going to matter is the 99% of the rest of the titles, and anything coming out tomorrow played on a 3080 are going to spank that 1080 like the proverbial red headed step child. Because the SLI won't apply. It won't be supported. Won't work. You'll be reduced to mgpu status that maybe might work if you remove the sli. And be stuck with 6Gb worth of gpus in games that already can eat up north of 12Gb at higher resolutions.
You are basing your decision based on 1% of the titles out there, which soon enough will be 0.1% and get similar performance. Nvidia has all but canceled support entirely on SLI, it's the reason only the 3090/ti carries sli bridge, and that'll be phased out entirely most likely with the 4000 series. Nobody codes for it, nvidia no longer supports it, it's basically dead. So realistically, you got nada tomorrow except 2x 1080's.