In that bios screen, Dell shows Memory Reference Clock : 133, everyone else (aftermarket) will use 200/266, which is essentially the same base. What you might be able to change is the Memory Ratio. It's on Auto. My guess is that ratio is currently 27, which multiplied by 133, will give you 3600. If you change that to 30 (or 15, depending on if they are going by data rate or dual data rate) that'll give you 4000. You'll most likely need to also raise the Memory Voltage to 1.1v from default.
If that works, you can keep bumping the ratio up, until it hits 4800 (ratio 36) and bump voltage up to 1.2v±