Well Grizely1, I won't call you a moron, cause I know you aren't one. On my asus a7v, the jumper is near the top of the board, to the top right of the dimm slots. It is a four-prong jumper, and the left two are 3.3, the middle two 3.5. and the right two 3.69 . The manual suggests 3.5, but says that 3.69 helps with overclocking. I'm not sure of the results of doing it, as my attempts didn't gain me anything, but it's worth a try. I think I have an older model of A7v (I got it around november or december) so I don't know if newer models are similar. I'm sorry if this doesn't make any sense right now, unfortuneatly I've had a bit too much to drink, but this goes along with what I had to say earlier.
What kind of board are you using on this computer?