So, here's the "birds and the bees" of how silicon is born.
There is a first rev, that is referred to as "early silicon." That is internal only and typically only a few dozen parts. These never leave our labs. The expectation is that there will only be a few functional cores per die, some of the cache won't work, and the clock speed is really low. This basically lets you test the functionality of the design.
The next rev is called "proto" because these are the prototype parts. Protos should be fully functional (but sometimes might not) and these go through our labs and then get handed out to a few select (ie. big) OEMs who happen to have really good programs for crunching silicon (sometimes a second and third set of eyes helps you find things.)
The next spin of silicon is EVT for early validation testing. This is now several hundred parts. These go through a few weeks of test and then after we have a certain amount of coverage and feel good about the health, they go out to all of our major OEM partners, board partners, etc.
The next release is DVT for design verification testing. DVTs are in the thousands and are generally considered "production quality." DVT should be exactly like final silicon. If there is any change that happens, it is typically only a few gates and definitely only a single layer at that point. A multi-layer change would require another round of DVT parts.
Then, after all of the tests are completed and the silicon passes, it is declared production silicon and we are able to sell it. We cannot sell any pre-production silicon, so there is a marking on the lid.
Between each round there could be a layer change (respin).
Most products don't change between EVT and DVT; Istanbul basically nailed the design on the first round of silicon, which is why it launched much earlier than expected.
So, getting DVT silicon is like getting a final production product. But getting EVT silicon is generally bad because there could be something that caused another silicon respin.
Software partners generally get DVT parts. Compiler partners typically get EVT and DVT parts, but the procedure will vary with some products, so it is not a hard rule.