My motherboard support up to 6400mhz , I am just curious , is spending 70$ (already 50$) worth it . I already bought 12900k and a motherboard so the only thing what I need to buy RAM
It's not just about the motherboard, it's about the alder lake imc limits. Some have gotten 6000 to work, others have gotten higher. Others not even that much, there's no guarantee. Unless there's some sort of bios update with microcode that can change that (doubtful) it's going to be the silicon lottery of the cpu mostly.
Being the intro to ddr5 it has its quirks. It already defaults to gear 2 so the memory doesn't run at 1:1 with the memory controller on the cpu. It's cut in half. Some things that can help give a slight boost on ddr5 is running dual rank but that requires either 4x8gb or 2x32gb. The 16gb sticks are single rank. There's a performance penalty using all 4 slots vs 2 on a 4 slot board and there's a slight performance hit I believe on 4 slot boards vs 2 slot.
It's important because aside from the higher initial prices it determines any future path. You get a 2 slot board and fill them up, you have to replace all the ram. Get a 4 slot board and fill 2 slots, if and when you get 2 more identical sticks (that play nice), it's a performance hit. And there's no real place holder ram for it now at 5600 or 6000 or whatever and next year swapping for 8000. You're still stuck with a cpu that won't support it even if the board got a bios update that allowed it on the board. So there's no real path forward. Upcoming raptor lake is supposed to have a slightly better imc on the cpu to allow handling higher speed ddr5. That would mean waiting for it or upgrading/swapping the cpu you just got for a newer one.
No doubt ddr5 will advance in the future, it's already improving beyond what can currently use it. Right now though you're stuck with mediocre timings and higher prices than realistically similar performing ddr4. Ddr4 is old tech going out, ddr5 is coming in new. But the way it exists right now there's nothing with a real ddr5 upgrade path. Just higher price ram. Outside of a very few games which see minimal improvements or zip compression, handling large file transfers or something the perks of ddr5 aren't really existent. If you find ddr5 with tighter timings and lower latencies it will cost even more. You could probably get decent timings and double your ram for the same price opting for ddr4 instead of 5. Look at all the timings though, not just cas/cl.