Control panel don't always work because windows control panel will just automatically go back to the on-board adpater. Have you tried booting into your bios and set nvidia to primary adapter?
First go to your bios (hit del repeatedly while laptop boots up). Then browse around to find something like primary adapter. If you still experience the problem after doing that uninstall the nvidia drivers and then download something called CC cleaner. Run the CC cleaner to clean both registry and and regular cleaning to get rid of any junk files and registries that stil has memory on your previous drivers. And then reinstall nvidia.
Do the steps above first to get fresh install to eliminate any potential of bad or corrupted system folders...