[citation][nom]Crashman[/nom]Like I said, the response was perfectly toned for two guys who were not offering any constructive criticism but instead were only seeking to disrupt. Being stern in the face of a disruptive force is the only mature response: We don't coddle or condescend, nor do we expect codling and condescension.Opinions that can improve future articles are highly prized (see other responses) but any input that's not meant to be helpful has *gasp* zero value.Come to think of it, it's been a while since anyone has added anything to the discussion. So far we have "bigger radiator" under advisement and "better pump" being unanamous, but comments apart from those appear to be nothing more than insults.And what is it that you find so insolent in the response? That I called a few insults "trash talk"? I didn't know you were so sensitive, from now on I'll try to SAY "insults" instead of "trash talk".[/citation]
By we do you refer to yourself as an individual, or thg in general? Cause your behavour and that of say chris or tuan are miles apart. Tuan confronts those who disagree with him, and take them serious (though they'll still disagree), and chris ignores too uncomfortable posts, and responds to those he see fit. These approaches keep most of the threads in a constructive and positive tone. Let's be honest. Neither our complains nor your oh so mature (from your point of view) responses generate the kind of positive atmosphere I believe thg would like.
There are many ways to handle the responses from the crowd, and I believe your way is far from the most optimal. I've always found your responses rather rude, but until today I haven't really felt like confronting you with it. Perhaps I should've done that earlier when I saw you flame some dudes for not agreeing with one of your articles (forgot what it was about ; am reading most articles here).
I'm not saying the crowd is much better than you are, but the crowd doesn't have the same responsibility with regards to maintain the image of thg as employees or free lance writers do.
After Tuans slightly unfortunate mac articles, the removal of second take, the many problems with the talkback facilities, the overwhelming amount of typos and the image fuckup in the tv calibration article (and similar fuckups), I don't think it takes that much extra effort from writers like you to make more readers find other sites. I like thg, I've always liked it. But I'm not sure everyone will be as tolerant as I am. Some might just decide to go somewhere else for their dosis of reviews and news.
I don't know how many posts get flagged for inappropriate content these days, but I've seen an increase in the amount of people complaining about things lately, and I am not ignorant enough to think the amount of annoying kids and grumpy middleaged men has suddenly tripled. So really I don't think you can afford to be as stubborn as you are.
Sorry if you don't appreaciate my honesty, and I'm sure not everyone will agree with me in the first place. But you NEED to learn how to behave according to your responsibilities.