The superclocked 560 Ti's have put a serious dent on the appeal-ability of the 570...... No doubt all the web traffic about "fried 570's" has helped decrease the 570's appeal but, to my mind, most of it is quite unfair. Yes, the 570's VRM is not as robust as the 560's but it seems the great majority of these fried 570's have resulted from exceeding nVidia's published voltage limits.
It's become a matter of just how much you are willing to pay for small increases in performance.
Since we talking SLI, I will use Guru3D's testing first; they use the following games in their test suite, COD-MW, Bad Company 2, Dirt 2, Far Cry 2, Metro 2033, Dawn of Discovery, Crysis Warhead. These are the results in SLI:
$ 205.00 560 Ti - 900 Mhz gets 862 fps @ $ 0.48 per frame
$ 320.00 570 gets 873 fps @ $ 0.73 per frame
$ 480.00 580 gets 953 fps @ $ 1.01 per frame
So.....in Guru3D's test......
You get a whopping 11 fps more (+1.3 %) getting the two 570's over the 560's for a 56% increase in cost.
You get 91 fps more (+10.6 %) getting the two 580's for a 134% increase in cost over the 560's.
Another consideration is that , the 560 is a beast at overclocking ..... looking here we see that the 560 Ti overclocked to the max (1920 x 1200) runs neck and neck (570 tops the 560 by 1.7%) with the standard 570 overclocked. The Asus model 570 OC'd does quite a bit better topping the 560 OC'd by 13% ....
http://www.overclockersclub.com/reviews/nvidia_asus_gtx560ti/5.htm
http://www.overclockersclub.com/reviews/nvidia_geforce_gtx_570_review/10.htm
http://www.overclockersclub.com/reviews/asus_gtx570_review/12.htm
560 Ti and Asus 560 Ti TOP CU Overclocked to Max Stable Frequency Both the TOP Cu and regular 560's got same scores at max oc
AvP = 36 fps
Metro 2033 = 36 fps
Cryis Warhead = 47 fps
COD-MW = 103 fps
Just Cause 2 = 59 fps
BatmanAA = 154 fps
BF-BC2 = 94 fps
Total = 529 fps
nVidia 570 Overclocked to Max Stable Frequency
AvP = 38 fps
Metro 2033 = 36 fps
Cryis Warhead = 45 fps
COD-MW = 102 fps
Just Cause 2 = 61 fps
BatmanAA = 157 fps
BF-BC2 = 99 fps
Total = 538 fps
Asus 570 Overclocked to Max Stable Frequency
AvP = 44 fps
Metro 2033 = 41fps
Cryis Warhead = 52 fps
COD-MW = 113fps
Just Cause 2 = 72 fps
BatmanAA = 177 fps
BF-BC2 = 101fps
Total = 600 fps
However, the 560 scales better (174%) than the 570 (167 %) .... I'd rather have actual testing from overclockers club but "doing the math" adjusting for SLI we have (again at max overclock):
560 Ti = 529 x 174% = 920 fps
570 = 536 x 167% = 895 fps
Asus 570 = 600 x 167% = 1002
The Asus 570 therefore gets 8.9% win over the 560's in this test
It's therefore left to the buyer to decide .....
8.9 % increase in performance over the 560 for 56% increase in cost for the 570
10.6 % increase in performance over the 560 for 134% increase in cost for the 580
The argument however, may fall to how you feel about the more demanding games. Do you care whether Batman gets 177 or 157 fps ? But, in SLI, the 570 gets 54 fps to the 560's 49 fps ...... that's 10% but will ya notice 5 fps ?