This topic is new to me so apologies first if im not helping much. I believe you're looking for monitor with ddc/ci support which i think a lot do, and then find software that allows you to control monitor osd settings.
Here explains about ddc/ci.
As monitors keep getting more advanced we're seeing more and more new features. In this article, we're talking about what is DDC/CI.
candid.technology
Maybe contact monitor manufacturers, ie Dell, inquiring about such a feature (ddc/ci) and which models offer it and if they also support consumer software you could use instead of universal software.
Guess, now the problem i see is because software is required on pc to manipulate monitor, once you change input to say a console, unless software has some sort of macro/quick key setup to change inputs back to pc youll be forced to use monitor buttons.
Maybe Hdmi/Displayport switcher be another avenue you could chase.