#1. correct.
#2. no.
The 5 devices on that chart aren't options that you put in slot 7. those are physical slots or headers on your motherboard. like this:
#3. correct.
#4. correct. (you can set slot 7 to run in auto, x1, or x4 in the bios.
#5. no. it means if you place a card in slot #7 (green arrow in pic above) and you set it to x4 mode, then you cannot use any of the other devices marked with an arrow in the picture above.
#6. correct. setting slot 7 to auto in the bios will automatically run in x1 mode, regardless of the card you place there.
#7. this part " In addition, if I am using the Auto Mode of the PCIEX16 chart and Slot #7 contains a PCIEX16 card then Slot #'s 1, 2, 4,5 and 6 are available for the other types of PCI cards?" is correct. This part is where you are confused is "The other cards can be: a PCIEX1 card, a USB3_34 card or a ESATA card. ". you are confusing usb3_34 and esata for cards. They are the header and port colored purple and yellow in the picture above. if #7 has a card and it's set to AUTO, you will still be able to use the black, purple, and yellow ports yes.
#8. no. an pciex1 slot can only have one lane. a pciex4 slot can only utilize a maximum of 4 lanes. a pciex8 slot can utilize a maximum of 8 lanes. a pcix16 slot can utilize a maximum of 16 lanes. Note however, i said MAXIMUM.
#9. the first number after the 'pciex' part of the slot means the physical size of the card that can be used. the second set of numbers is the amount of lanes that can be used by that slot. For example, a pciex16 x8 slot means it can accomodate a pcie16 card (the large ones) but it will only have 8 lanes available to it. a pciex16 x4 slot means it can accomodate a pci16 card, but it will only have 4 lanes available to it.
#10. no. see answer #7.
#11 errr...sort of. vgac chart refers to ONLY slots 2 and 5. These two slots share 16 lanes. These 16 lanes are not included in the 4 that are shared by the devices in the picture above. They are separate. What this chart means is if you are only using one pcie16 card, you have to place it in slot 2 so that one card can utilize all 16 lanes. This is because all 16 lanes are physically connected to slot #2. 8 of those 16 lanes then continue to slot 5. Slot 5 only has 8 lanes physically connected to it. Therefore if slot 2 is left empty, but u put an x16 card in slot 5, you are only taking advantage of 8 lanes. The other 8 that are wired to slot 2 are left unused. see crude drawing below.
each one of those red arrows represents 8 lanes. Notice how both arrows physically pass through slot 2? That means slot 2 can utilize all 16 lanes. only 1 arrow (again, think 8 lanes) reaches slot 5. So how much sense would it make to leave slot 2 empty, but put an x16 card in slot #5 that only uses 8 lanes. it makes more sense to put a single card in slot 2 and utilize all 16 lanes. by the same token you should see that if you are going to use both slots with x16 cards (for sli or crossfire) then each would use 8 lanes. So if you read the vgac chart again you can see that if you are only going to use one video card, it recommends you place it in slot 2 (your motherboard lists slot 2 as pci 2.0 16_1 because it's the first pci16 slot. slot #5 is the second pci16 slot, hence pci 2.0 16_2.
by the way, that chart is called 'vga configuration' because most (if not all) x16 cards are video cards. slots 2 and 5 have the most lanes physically wired to them so it makes sense to make those available to video cards (video cards require lots of bandwidth)
as far as irq's go, you really don't need to worry much about these. They basically go hand in hand with the 'shared lanes' concept from above. each device is assigned an irq (think of an irq as a number between 1 and 20) so that the system knows which device needs to use a resource (like raising your hand to take your turn to speak). Since many of the devices share lanes, they must also share irqs, since their requests travel along the same wires (lanes). This is an extremely simplified explanation. Way back in the day, irq's were a pain in the butt. many times requiring the user to manually set them to resolve conflicts. nowadays, alot of people get by building and messing with computers without really knowing anything about them, so you shouldn't 'worry' too much about this chart. certainly knowing more about irq's can help, it's not the most important thing you need to learn right away.
btw i really hope im helping and not confusing the hell out of you.
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[edit: forgot to answer irq question]