The years AMD had top performance where the years intel made the most money...intel isn't terrified of making money.
Heh, it takes only a quick look at the price structure of Ice Lake SP to see why Intel is afraid of AMD winning yet another round. It's not because Intel won't sell any CPUs, but rather that it will impact their margins.
As for Intel raking in the dough, that's a simple matter that AMD didn't have the wafer allocation from TSMC and hadn't fully ramped up the EPYC ecosystem to mount a proper challenge to Intel's datacenter dominance. Intel's success wasn't due to anything AMD did wrong or anything Intel did right, but rather that demand was going nuts and the market basically had no choice but to buy Intel CPUs, made on a very mature process, at whatever Intel felt like charging.
Those set of circumstances aren't going to repeat, and Intel knows it ...even if you don't.
for laptops a big part of those are just for conserving space and are used as desktops that are always plugged in.
Less efficient CPUs require bigger batteries & cooling solutions -> more bulk, weight, and cost. Or else they just run hot and have a short battery life. Either of which hurts reviewers' ratings, and a lot of people do pay attention to reviews.
So, I don't think you can be so dismissive of power-efficiency in laptops.