Yes and no. The first Gigabit ethernet came out in 1998, and it was fast accepted in all markets, including consumer. Yes, that consumer base was a smaller percentage than today, it was still readily available.All of your examples were only doing about 2x per generation. Ethernet had the (perhaps unfortunate) precedent of increasing 10x per generation. The gap between gigabit and 10gig just proved too costly, it outpaced complementary technologies like storage, and there wasn't a consumer need.
Also, I just need to set the record straight: PCIe did not progress at such an even pace. The jump from 3.0 to 4.0 took 7 years:
If you look at how long it took PCIe to increase 10x, it took about 15 years!! I'll bet DRAM probably works out to something similar.
The next "upgrade" was 2.5Gb and 5Gb, released in 2016, 18 years later. The most PCIe had was 7. And PCIe was again, readily available to all markets. 2.5Gb and 5Gb were niche products and virtually impossible for a consumer to be able to utilize it (computers, NAS, Router/switches). At least not without spending a small fortune.
10GBase-T was developed and released much sooner. Developed in 2001, released formally in 2002. So, yes, Ethernet did have a bigger jump of 10x vs 2x, but there have been stop gaps in the following years, and 22 years to be able to make it main stream, which is still isn't. Even USB-C has passed it massively.
In 2010, 40Gb was approved as a new standard, and I well imagine was being used in industry/offices. Now I think those are rare as many have gone to fiber. And Fiber won't be an option for consumers for a long time. Not until all IoT starts dual porting devices with ethernet and fiber so people can make the transition.
The whole "ethernet" thing has been a big pet peeve of mine for about a decade now, and it just gets worse every year. I don't believe there is any legitimate reason now to be making 10Gb standard by now. It's 22 years old. Yea, it might require a bit more power, but if they had have invested even the slightest research into that as they have with everything else, they could have overcome that. And, yes, there are dual port 10Gb ethernet cards that are fanless, as well as switches (the one I linked that I'm still hoping to get one day).