Relax the timings to 5-5-5-15 and give it 2.2v and see if that clears up the problem. If not then check the vcore level, give it 1.5v. The key to overclocking is to reduce as many bottlenecks as possible. I have a feeling that the RAM doesn't like to run at 400FSB though. So like I said, make those two changes and then try to bench it. If it's stable then drop vcore back to stock and repeat. If it's still stable then you know it was an issue with the RAM. If it's not still stable then the only other thing to try would be lowering the FSB until you can make it stable.