1) 2 Years from now when I'll be switching my I7 920 I'll get a six core for U$300.00 as I did with the 920 and by that time 6 cores will be maxed out, paralel, multithread, that's the way programing is going.
2) Well 2-5% is enought to justify the extra U$70.00 I payed to have a P6TD-Deluxe over a good 1156 non N200 Chipset Mobo (the processor pays hinself his extra price over the I5 750) since I'll buy one 5870 on june and another sometime further (look I have an I7 920 and still have an 8800GT and I'll wait to the best deal in june, as I've waited to the I7 plataform + DDR3 2000mhz until now)
3) Yeah but both fit LGA775 could you put an I5 on an I7 9xx mobo? The tendency is only this diference to grow. With improved use of HT (more physical cores on 1366, more benefit from HT).
4) I don't think so. If the only thing you do is gamming.... well even in this segment will be improvement in use of multi core (phisical or not) since AI techinics based on vectors are becomming very popular (trust me, I research this topic) and they are highly multi core/thread friendly. Like other guy said above try to do some virtualization, some video transcoding... and you'll see the diference. Your opinion is serious biased by what you do (nothing wrong with this) but you can't state that what don't fit to you doesn't fit the others. Make some number crashing and se how much an I5 750 got smashed by an I7 (8xx or 9xx) and sorry the top processors will only be released on 1366 the so caled "obsolete" plataform. And further more try to keep a 4.2ghz+ OC 24/7 on a I5 750 or a I7 8xx and let's how much Voltage you need, how much cooling you'll need. Thats my opinion =)