Well, on reevaluating the entire situation...here's what i've concluded so far:
1) I think we should chill the f*** out as far as performance is concerend. You're getting more performance than IVB at stock.
2) It can OC the about the same as IVB and has a better IPC. So even if it OCs a bit less, performance is the same, which is slightly disappointing.
3) The disappointment that everyone's feeling is probably because, as Sakkura said, it's a new microarchitecture, everyone probably hoped for a Nehalem to Sandy Bridge type jump in performance and efficiency, but instead this looked more like a tick in terms of performance.
4) The only other disappointments on the desktop have been higher load power consumption, and a degradation in QuickSync's performance and quality (
http://www.anandtech.com/show/7007/intels-haswell-an-htpc-perspective/8 )
5) All in all, not mind blowing, but was a fairly successful launch. Intel's focus this time has been on power consumption, and as InvalidError pointed out, it's commendable that they've managed to tweak it like they have, it's just unfortunate that they've not got too much out of the redesigns. It's possible software still has to catch up, though.
6) As someone else pointed out, probably the only way Intel can increase mainstream desktop performance is to stay stagnant on the GPU while increasing the resources thrown at the x86 side of things. Maybe if graphics gets good enough for Intel by the time Broadwell arrives, or Steamroller puts enough pressure on their i5s, they'll make i7s 6 or 8 core parts with Skylake.
7) I've read on Tech Report that future Pentiums/Celerons may have Silvermont cores instead of full Haswell cores, and if Airmont bridges the Core and Atom arch completely, this may well be true (BTW Intel sort of confirmed this
http://techreport.com/news/24891/report-pentium-celeron-branded-atoms-to-power-android-devices ). In which case, it may be likely that Intel separates its Core branding from Atom/Celeron/Pentium completely in terms of performance, by limiting Pentiums to 4/8 Silvermont/Airmont cores (more likely 4), while starting Core i3s with 4 Skylake Cores, moving up to 8 for Mainstream i7s.
Tech Report has a separate article on Haswell OCing:
http://techreport.com/review/24889/haswell-overclocked-the-core-i7-4770k-at-4-7ghz