Alright, if 4gb is enough RAM for you, then overclocking does work better with only 2 RAM slots being occupied.
You have a CPU multiplier and base clock. That is what gives you your CPU speed, base clock (base clock = front side bus or FSB) x the multiplier. Your base clock is 200Mhz, as all modern AMD CPUs run with a 200Mhz FSB, but has a multiplier of, you guessed it, 16.5! Why? Because 200Mhz x a 16.5 multiplier gives you 3300Mhz, or 3.3Ghz. You have a black edition CPU, which means the multiplier is unlocked, which is great because messing with the FSB also changes RAM speeds because the RAM also has it's own multiplier. So, when you have 1600mhz RAM and a 200Mhz FSB, your RAM has a 8 multiplier. Change the FSB, it will tune your CPU and RAM! That is why changing just the multiplier is nice because you don't have to worry about anything, it just effects the CPU.
Please have these utilities: CPU-Z, Prime95, and Hardware Monitor. CPU-Z tells CPU voltage, speeds, and some other good stuff, Hardware Monitor tells heat, voltages, and much much more like fan speeds etc. Prime 95 will stress your CPU to make sure it has a stable overclock.
Now, let's set some boundaries!
1. Your voltage should not go beyond 1.425v on the VCore! (I would keep it under 1.38v for safety)
2. Your heat (In Celsius) should not exceed 70C! When testing, 80C is acceptable, but for 24/7 use, I would like to keep it in the 50s- low 60s.
3. Please, know how to reset a CMOS in case anything goes wrong!
Your motherboard is not a board meant for any extreme overclocking, so don't go too hard on it, it may break.
You have to realize that overclocking is dangerous if you do not know what you are doing!!!
Now to the good stuff!
Go into your BIOS and set your RAM to 1333Mhz with 9-9-9-24 timings because Phenom II CPUs do prefer 1333Mhz RAM sticks because there memory controller is fragile. If they are 1.5v DIMMs, set them to 1.5v, if they are 1.65v set them to 1.65v, etc. I wouldn't go past 1.7v though.
Now for tuning the CPU!
😀 You will change your multiplier up with increments of 1 to give it a 200Mhz boost. Boot into Windows until you get crashes or achieve the OC you want. Because you are new to overclocking, I would shoot for 3.6Ghz for now. So, to get 3.6Ghz, you will need an 18 multiplier, but you don't want to just jump to 18! Go to 17 form 16.5 to give you 3.4Ghz, then boot into windows. VCore comes in handy when you get a crash. Push up the voltage on the Vcore slightly (.001-.005v) to get it stable. Then see if it boots. Once you get to 3.6Ghz (or whatever you would like, but I still suggest 3.6Ghz for starting), stress test it for 6+ hours with Prime 95. Open CPU-Z and Hardware Monitor to check temps/voltages. Again, make sure temps do not exceed 80C while testing! For voltage, I would keep it under 1.38v for long life!
I use offset voltage and not fixed so that I don't run a high voltage through my CPU at all times. I would do the same if I were you. Set the offset voltage so that it will add the voltage when needed, but lower down when it is not. You should also disable AMD Cool N Quiet, but you may be able to get it stable without doing that.
That is just an outline of overclocking and not everything you need to know to push it far. Here is a forum sticky which will help too:
http://www.tomshardware.com/forum/258573-29-black-edition-overclock-guide-raising-multiplier
It't not my fault if anything goes wrong though.
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