City of Heroes (Homecoming). Classic game, played it for 9 years when it was originally out. Didn't have to manually dodge attacks since Defense was based on roll (combat similar to WoW). It has some of the most Interesting story arcs I've encountered in a MMO and be far probably the friendliest communities you'll ever meet in a game. Everyone was super nice back in the day and the same people have returned. The only ones who talk smack are pvper's but they pretty much have there own server and it's in good fun anyways. As for costumes everything is unlocked from the moment you make a character, don't expect anyone to have similar costumes/looks. The game is older so don't expect the best graphics but it's far from bad and looks good if you have a updated system or it's easy to play on older hardware. I was able to play at 60 FPS @1440x900 on Low preset with a T6400 (dual core from 2009), 4gb memory & a GTS 9800M 512mb (LOL). On a Ryzen 2600, 16gb DDR4 & a RX 580 4gb the game looks fantastic on High settings and only starts to dip with larger raids. If you do decide to try out COH PM me and i'll you get it setup and teach you the basics of the game.
Edit: I also wanted to add, do actually story arcs and avoid radio missions if you get easily bored. Radios are fine to do with a good size team for XP but can be quite repetitive and really the only reason to do them is to get new Contacts.
Next would be Blade & Soul, fun F2P game with amazing graphics, good martial arts combat & an excellent story. The downside is an elitist community during endgame. Minor mistakes in end game dungeons and be expected to be kicked from the team. If you try this game out find a guild that promotes newer endgame help and watch tutorials for dungeons. If you don't care for endgame stuff the story & lvl 1-65 is fun enough on it's own if you don't mind soloing.
I've played quite a few but those are my tops.