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Erimess the Energetic Itchy Advocate of Justice wrote:
>On Sun, 10 Apr 2005 02:01:35 GMT, Saint George's Dragon
><firstname_lastname@yahoo.ca> wrote:
>>I worked one summer at a bottlecap factory, I was in charge of the
>>machine that made the cardboard boxes the bottlecaps were shipped off
>>in. I worked 12 hour shifts (and every two weeks I shifted from day to
>>night shift).
>I am so sorry. I have yet to figure out how management missed the
>point that we are human beings, and as a general rule can't just go
>switching from night to day shifts every two weeks like that. I would
>probably literally end up in the hospital because my body would react
>so badly to it. Except that sounds like something I should be able to
>turn into Workers' Comp and get disability. 🙂

Luckily, I had no trouble switching. It was just a matter of staying
up all night and then sleeping during the day before I went to night
shift. And staying up all day and sleeping all night the night before
day shift. IIRC I would sleep in the days for the two weeks I was on
night shift to keep in the swing. It was weird to be up when everyone
else was asleep, it made me feel kind of special. The complete
exhaustion induced by standing up for 12 hours a day helped make the
change over easy. I just hit the bed and I was out. I can not remember
much about what I did in my off time in that summer, although a check
of my external memory (google groups :) reveals I posted here at a
good rate in that period. Probably, I just lazed about on my off days
visited some friends. My subsequent summer university jobs let me to
take summer courses in addition, that was very enriching.

The scary thing was the way my coworkers would tear out of the parking
lot. I got a ride with my parents (or via taxi or a coworker), but I
knew how tired I felt, I was sure this could not be good for the
accident rate. Although subsequently I have heard horror stories about
what extended night shifts can do to people. Probably my young body
was springy enough to deal with it. I agree it makes no sense. I think
12 hour shifts are also a bad idea. I believe there were studies done
during WWII that showed productivity drops off so badly after 8 hours
that you end up behind.

>I too worked at a place with 12 hour shifts, where they worked 3 on
>and 3 off, so the schedule was different days each week.

I think our schedule was 2 days on, 2 days off, 3 days on, 2 days off,
2 days on, 3 days off and switch schedule, back to start. So you
worked 84 hours over two weeks. So it alternated every other week.
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In article <1ijsqhuew1f9a.7uu9s66iq4tz$.dlg@40tude.net>,
citizenashi@yahoo.com says...
> Eek! thehawk wrote:
> > Ashikaga says...
> <snip>
> >> But that'll be okay if you love your work and can find that as a missing
> >> piece of the puzzle that fill your life.
> >
> > (all the rest removed, if you could not tell)
> >
> > This is where I cut you off, because, in my opinion, this is where you
> > are going all wrong.
> >
> > See, work is not a missing piece of the puzzle to fill my life, it is
> > not something that I will ever love, and it is not something I will ever
> > be passionate about (with just about two exceptions, and I will go into
> > why in a bit- I think). I work for one thing, and one thing only, like
> > I said. To finance my living.
> >
> > I have goals. I have a -list- of goals, a copy of which I keep in my
> > wallet (which reminds me, it is old and tattered, and needs to be
> > recopied by now). They range from things like seeing my best friend
> > graduate from college (it has been a long and arduous road for her) to
> > hiking the Pacific Crest Trail, and climbing the mountains in the
> > Cascade Range, and a multitude of things in between. As you can see,
> > unless I work for National Geographic or the Discovery Channel, they are
> > in no way related to pretty much any job I may have. In those rare
> > moments when I wonder why in the world I am doing whatever work I am
> > supposed to be doing, I just have to look at (or any more, think about,
> > as I memorized it long ago) that list and I know.
> >
> > Career goals? Who cares? You know why companies like people like that
> > so much? Because they are easy to manipulate into working the long
> > hours and going the extra mile for the same pay as everyone else. Make
> > no mistake. The days of company loyalty to its employees is long past.
> > They reward you for -their- benefit, not yours.
> <snip>
> > A career, your friends, your family, your own life. You have to decide
> > what is most important to you. Something to keep in mind tho. Have you
> > ever seen things like 'he enjoyed his life too much', 'he spent too much
> > time with his family', or 'he did not spend enough time at work' written
> > on a tombstone, or in an epitaph?
> >
> > If your job were so great, it would not be called 'work'.
> >
> > Now quit observating and go out there and do something.
>
> Hawkie..., I know we don't know each other very much, but I guess I should
> start to tell a little bit about me to you at least, so you don't feel all
> pissed at me (our foci are really different). Career is only "a" missing

*chuckles* 'Pissed'? As in 'angry'? Heh, not even close.

> piece of anyone's puzzle, and it's not everything, which I think you must
> have mistaken it as something I was suggesting. Love to someone (to your
> love one, friends, family, et al) is another. It is never, by itself, the
> complete part of life.

You might be surprised at some of the things that help you become more
complete.

> Of course, everyone has some different assortments of what they want to
> accomplish in life, and unfortunately, I have nothing else I could do right
> now except using work as the intrument of making my life fuller. This
> thread was never meant to be an inquiry of any specific individual's life
> worth with association with their jobs, but I just want to ask what do you
> guys think about jobs and life.

An opinion that I have given you, at great length (tho there is lots
more where all of that came from).

> I guess what I wanted to accompalish was, I wanted you guys to tell me what
> other views you guys could see in the relationship of the two that I
> couldn't see, and therefore, feeling better that my focus was really too

Might I suggest that you ask for what you really want (which, mebbie you
did, a-way back in the beginning of this thread)?

> narrowminded. Anyways, it's a good material for the novel. People have to

Novel? Who is writing the novel again?

> ask that question sometime in their life time, you know. Having it written
> down in a presentational way and let other people read it would help
> someone who is in the same boat, you see.

The problem with this part is that, at least from what I have observed
in humans, people are very rarely 'in the same boat'. Some
circumstances may be similar, but the events and experiences leading up
to those circumstances are usually not very the same.

> Heck, I guess it's just another one of the bad attempts to get some
> attention. Yeah, I could just go out hiking and stuff, but it's just not
> the same doing it by myself (which I've done a million times, wandering
> about mindlessly, but the magic won't be there if doing it alone you see).

I am not suggesting you take up -my- passions. Heh, find yer own.

> I guess my self worth is so low that I need to do some job to prove
> myself.... Sorry if that bothers you, but that's just what I need to do
> right now so my mind will be straightened out.

While you are throwing yourself into your work, do not forget to take
time out to figure out what the problem really is. Becoming one with
your work is a wonderful way to hide, but it does very little to solve
any trouble.

Your work should be identifiable as yours, not the other way around.

> Everyone is a little different, you see....

Sorry man. No offense, but you are a little more than 'a little'
different.

> I only asked to know your mindset, not really some criticism.
> I hope I didn't sound rude.

*chuckles* I have not yet -given- any criticism. I can accommodate it
tho. You want some?

-thehawk
Fallen Angel Dragon, UDIC
 
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Eek! thehawk wrote:
> Ashikaga says...
<snip>
>> Hawkie..., I know we don't know much about each other, but I guess I should
>> start to tell a little bit about me to you at least, so you don't feel all
>> pissed at me (our foci are really different). Career is only "a" missing
>
> *chuckles* 'Pissed'? As in 'angry'? Heh, not even close.

Phew! That was close. ;-) Just kidding, just kidding....

>> piece of anyone's puzzle, and it's not everything, which I think you must
>> have mistaken it as something I was suggesting. Love to someone (to your
>> love one, friends, family, et al) is another. It is never, by itself, the
>> complete part of life.
>
> You might be surprised at some of the things that help you become more
> complete.

Okay. Now I am confused. Spell that out for me (T - H - A - T, That!
j/k...). Anyways, do tell me. Ignore my unfunny jokes.

>> Of course, everyone has some different assortments of what they want to
>> accomplish in life, and unfortunately, I have nothing else I could do right
>> now except using work as the intrument of making my life fuller. This
>> thread was never meant to be an inquiry of any specific individual's life
>> worth with association with their jobs, but I just want to ask what do you
>> guys think about jobs and life.
>
> An opinion that I have given you, at great length (tho there is lots
> more where all of that came from).

Okay, I guess.... Maybe my mindset was not very focused, which happens.

>> I guess what I wanted to accompalish was, I wanted you guys to tell me what
>> other views you guys could see in the relationship of the two that I
>> couldn't see, and therefore, feeling better that my focus was really too
>
> Might I suggest that you ask for what you really want (which, mebbie you
> did, a-way back in the beginning of this thread)?

I guess I never really spell it out. I rarely spell out what I really want
when I ask a question, which I guess it bothers people to some degree. But
I am always afraid if I spell too much out, people will give me stuffing
answers just to make me happy, but not what they really really think.

>> narrowminded. Anyways, it's a good material for the novel. People have to
>
> Novel? Who is writing the novel again?

ME ME ME! Of course it's always me who is trying to write a novel. I'm
still collecting materials for the novel.

>> ask that question sometime in their life time, you know. Having it written
>> down in a presentational way and let other people read it would help
>> someone who is in the same boat, you see.
>
> The problem with this part is that, at least from what I have observed
> in humans, people are very rarely 'in the same boat'. Some
> circumstances may be similar, but the events and experiences leading up
> to those circumstances are usually not very the same.

Well, people can make their own judgement of course, whether their
circumstances are close enough to be called "in the same boat." They also
have the discretion to choose what part of my opinion they should
subscribe.

>> Heck, I guess it's just another one of the bad attempts to get some
>> attention. Yeah, I could just go out hiking and stuff, but it's just not
>> the same doing it by myself (which I've done a million times, wandering
>> about mindlessly, but the magic won't be there if doing it alone you see).
>
> I am not suggesting you take up -my- passions. Heh, find yer own.

Hey, I can love hiking too, can't I? I always like nature, and it's not
like I only do hiking because of you. 😛 I hiked with my brother too,
LONG BEFORE you told me about your passion. I was only saying for an
activity like that it's better done in company with who you enjoy spending
time with.

Now you reminded me how much I enjoy sharing things with people. I always
buy a lot of mangas and movies instead of renting them, because I love
lending them out to my friends so we could talk about them. I guess I want
to create a connection between me and people, which I often couldn't find
someone who shares my passion. But somehow I am always very disappointed
because almost nobody wants to read my mangas or movies. They either say
they have no time for it, or my taste is too dry.

It sometimes makes me feel I love my friends too much and they don't love
the same way back. Of course, it's really not fair for my friends, so
sometimes I just let it go and try not to expect much, but it does feel a
little bad when the rate people do reciprocate is pretty low (less than 10%
really...). Most people are just "too busy" to appreciate me (as if all
the effort I made to create those nice gestures doesn't take a lot of time
and attention, and I never could say "I am too busy" to love someone).

>> I guess my self worth is so low that I need to do some job to prove
>> myself.... Sorry if that bothers you, but that's just what I need to do
>> right now so my mind will be straightened out.
>
> While you are throwing yourself into your work, do not forget to take
> time out to figure out what the problem really is. Becoming one with
> your work is a wonderful way to hide, but it does very little to solve
> any trouble.

I know what my problem is, but there is no way I could solve it, at least
for now. I just need a distraction until I could finally find a way out to
that mental mess I am having. I can't just let my life stand still and
accompolish nothing, so that's what I decided to do..., do some jobs until
I feel better.

> Your work should be identifiable as yours, not the other way around.

I knew that! I am resisting that too.

>> Everyone is a little different, you see....
>
> Sorry man. No offense, but you are a little more than 'a little'
> different.

I guess I'm different, but then, so is the next person. People are all so
unique nowadays that no one can relate to each other anymore.

>> I only asked to know your mindset, not really some criticism.
>> I hope I didn't sound rude.
>
> *chuckles* I have not yet -given- any criticism. I can accommodate it
> tho. You want some?

My skin is a little thin, so make sure it doesn't scratch me too hard. I'd
cry very hard if you left some scar on me. (and then some nice granny
figure would whip you with a broom)

Anyways, can I have a hug? (I guess there is no point, since no one has
accepted the offer yet, but it doesn't hurt to ask)

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Quoth thehawk <thehawk5150at@hotmaildot.com>:
....
> This is where I cut you off, because, in my opinion, this is where you
> are going all wrong.
....

Snips for length, but regreful ones. Good post, Fallen Angel. Not
everyone will agree with you, but food for thought, either way. :)
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In article <MPG.1cca3f66a03d0beb9897d6@usenet.plus.net>, Samurai@dev.nul
says...
> Quoth thehawk <thehawk5150at@hotmaildot.com>:
> ...
> > This is where I cut you off, because, in my opinion, this is where you
> > are going all wrong.
> ...
>
> Snips for length, but regreful ones. Good post, Fallen Angel. Not
> everyone will agree with you, but food for thought, either way. :)

Thank you. *chuckles* Everyone -rarely- agrees with me- I am the bad
kid in class (yes, I sit in the back, and generally have a smart mouth
too).

However, ever the one to cause waves (and keep them going, especially if
I think it might give people something to think about), those who
disagree, I ask you this: if you were to find out that six months from
this minute you will be dead (with no chance for resurrection this
time), where do you focus your energies? Why?

-thehawk
Fallen Angel Dragon, UDIC
 
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Eek! Samurai wrote:
> Quoth thehawk:
> ...
>> This is where I cut you off, because, in my opinion, this is where you
>> are going all wrong.
> ...
>
> Snips for length, but regreful ones. Good post, Fallen Angel. Not
> everyone will agree with you, but food for thought, either way. :)

Yeah, I agree with Hawkie to some extend (but not all) but I can see from
his point too. But now, we all need a little hiking and nature loving.
Let's work on that. ;-)

--
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In article <esm05v3rz5xx$.1wdfd7og4kope.dlg@40tude.net>,
citizenashi@yahoo.com says...
> Eek! Samurai wrote:
> > Quoth thehawk:
> > ...
> >> This is where I cut you off, because, in my opinion, this is where you
> >> are going all wrong.
> > ...
> >
> > Snips for length, but regreful ones. Good post, Fallen Angel. Not
> > everyone will agree with you, but food for thought, either way. :)
>
> Yeah, I agree with Hawkie to some extend (but not all) but I can see from
> his point too. But now, we all need a little hiking and nature loving.
> Let's work on that. ;-)
>
>
*chuckles* There is only one certain gift of nature I want to be loving
about now..

-thehawk
Fallen Angel Dragon, UDIC
 
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Eek! thehawk wrote:
> Ashikaga says...
<snip>
>> Yeah, I agree with Hawkie to some extend (but not all) but I can see from
>> his point too. But now, we all need a little hiking and nature loving.
>> Let's work on that. ;-)
>>
> *chuckles* There is only one certain gift of nature I want to be loving
> about now..

Ooh..., what would that be? :->

--
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In article <1es72djvudpmm.1kqwu9odbsve0$.dlg@40tude.net>,
citizenashi@yahoo.com says...
> Eek! thehawk wrote:
> > Ashikaga says...
> <snip>
> >> Yeah, I agree with Hawkie to some extend (but not all) but I can see from
> >> his point too. But now, we all need a little hiking and nature loving.
> >> Let's work on that. ;-)
> >>
> > *chuckles* There is only one certain gift of nature I want to be loving
> > about now..
>
> Ooh..., what would that be? :->
>

Keep in mind that gifts of nature are not always a 'what'...

-thehawk
Fallen Angel Dragon, UDIC
 
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Eek! thehawk wrote:
> Ashikaga says...
>> Eek! thehawk wrote:
<snip>
>>> *chuckles* There is only one certain gift of nature I want to be loving
>>> about now..
>>
>> Ooh..., what would that be? :->
>
> Keep in mind that gifts of nature are not always a 'what'...

I don't get it.... :-/

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Eek! thehawk wrote:
> Ashikaga says...
<snip>
>> Anyways, I don't see why people could disagree with you a lot. You are a
>> nice person.
>
> *chuckles* No I am not. Not even close.

Bah! You are one of those people..., who keep saying they are not
something they really are.

>> I know the answer immediately because I have always been thinking about
>> being dead in a short time a lot (I know, how morbid...). I would probably
>> focused on doing some humanitarian works like writing down some life
>> experience in the form of novels to enhance people's awareness of self and
>> relation with the world, or books that would contribute to economics
>> reformation. If I knew I am going to be dead, then I don't have to care
>> about making enemies so writing a book on that latter subject would become
>> a feasible option.
>
> Heh. Exactly.

:-/

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Ashikaga wrote:

>> Keep in mind that gifts of nature are not always a 'what'...
>
> I don't get it.... :-/

Try asking an owl 😉

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thehawk wrote:

> Thank you. *chuckles* Everyone -rarely- agrees with me- I am the bad kid
> in class (yes, I sit in the back, and generally have a smart mouth too).

I always sat in the front with my smart mouth (I like to look in the profs
eyes while showing them up).

> However, ever the one to cause waves (and keep them going, especially if I
> think it might give people something to think about), those who disagree,
> I ask you this: if you were to find out that six months from this minute
> you will be dead (with no chance for resurrection this time), where do you
> focus your energies? Why?

I don't disagree, but I'll give it a shot anyway.

If you had asked me at least 3 1/2 years ago, then certainly things would
have been different. I really can't say for sure what I would have done,
probably blown all my savings on a permanent trip to South America or
something. However, now that I have two small children to look out for
that would be extremely selfish. Instead I would probably try to find a
way to provide for them once I'm gone, which may involve working long,
hard hours at any job that gives the most pay. Or it may mean robbing a
bank (although that's much riskier) :)

--
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In article <pan.2005.04.17.06.40.19.111973@ciotog.net>,
usenet@ciotog.net says...
> thehawk wrote:
>
> > Thank you. *chuckles* Everyone -rarely- agrees with me- I am the bad kid
> > in class (yes, I sit in the back, and generally have a smart mouth too).
>
> I always sat in the front with my smart mouth (I like to look in the profs
> eyes while showing them up).
>
> > However, ever the one to cause waves (and keep them going, especially if I
> > think it might give people something to think about), those who disagree,
> > I ask you this: if you were to find out that six months from this minute
> > you will be dead (with no chance for resurrection this time), where do you
> > focus your energies? Why?
>
> I don't disagree, but I'll give it a shot anyway.
>
> If you had asked me at least 3 1/2 years ago, then certainly things would
> have been different. I really can't say for sure what I would have done,
> probably blown all my savings on a permanent trip to South America or
> something. However, now that I have two small children to look out for
> that would be extremely selfish. Instead I would probably try to find a
> way to provide for them once I'm gone, which may involve working long,
> hard hours at any job that gives the most pay. Or it may mean robbing a
> bank (although that's much riskier) :)
>
>
The first thing that comes to mind when reading that: what changes the
nature of a (wo)man?

-thehawk
Fallen Angel Dragon, UDIC
 
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Ashikaga wrote:

> Do you guys find a good correlationship bewteen the meaning of your life
> and the work you do?

Hmm... NO.

Then again I've been on parental leave for 6 months, I hardly remember
what I was doing :)

I think being a college professor would be a pretty sweet job, and I could
see myself throwing my passions right into it. Of course it would depend
on what I was teaching...

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Quoth Ashikaga <citizenashi@yahoo.com>:
> Eek! thehawk wrote:
....
> > Keep in mind that gifts of nature are not always a 'what'...
>
> I don't get it.... :-/

More likely, I suspect, to be a "who".

Certainly is for me. I'll be watching the next episode in a few hours.
😀
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Words to the wise, thehawk <thehawk5150at@hotmaildot.com> wrote:

>> Snips for length, but regreful ones. Good post, Fallen Angel. Not
>> everyone will agree with you, but food for thought, either way. :)
>
>Thank you. *chuckles* Everyone -rarely- agrees with me- I am the bad
>kid in class (yes, I sit in the back, and generally have a smart mouth
>too).

That is so true.
 
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In article <mlh561tldf3nff9k1ub736bujdp3i9j74v@4ax.com>, claus@ultima-
dragons.org says...
> Words to the wise, thehawk <thehawk5150at@hotmaildot.com> wrote:
>
> >> Snips for length, but regreful ones. Good post, Fallen Angel. Not
> >> everyone will agree with you, but food for thought, either way. :)
> >
> >Thank you. *chuckles* Everyone -rarely- agrees with me- I am the bad
> >kid in class (yes, I sit in the back, and generally have a smart mouth
> >too).
>
> That is so true.
>
*suspiciously wonders which of his classes Claus is in*

-thehawk
Fallen Angel Dragon, UDIC
 
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Words to the wise, thehawk <thehawk5150at@hotmaildot.com> wrote:


>The first thing that comes to mind when reading that: what changes the
>nature of a (wo)man?

A (wo)man.
 
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In article <toh561h0c6u8qmbn2ftd6sp41kr8m45rk6@4ax.com>, claus@ultima-
dragons.org says...
> Words to the wise, thehawk <thehawk5150at@hotmaildot.com> wrote:
>
>
> >The first thing that comes to mind when reading that: what changes the
> >nature of a (wo)man?
>
> A (wo)man.
>
*laughs*

-thehawk
Fallen Angel Dragon, UDIC
 
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Eek! thehawk wrote:
> Cape Dweller says...
>> thehawk wrote:
<snip>
>>> However, ever the one to cause waves (and keep them going, especially if I
>>> think it might give people something to think about), those who disagree,
>>> I ask you this: if you were to find out that six months from this minute
>>> you will be dead (with no chance for resurrection this time), where do you
>>> focus your energies? Why?
>>
>> I don't disagree, but I'll give it a shot anyway.
>>
>> If you had asked me at least 3 1/2 years ago, then certainly things would
>> have been different. I really can't say for sure what I would have done,
>> probably blown all my savings on a permanent trip to South America or
>> something. However, now that I have two small children to look out for
>> that would be extremely selfish. Instead I would probably try to find a
>> way to provide for them once I'm gone, which may involve working long,
>> hard hours at any job that gives the most pay. Or it may mean robbing a
>> bank (although that's much riskier) :)

I think my answer would be very different too compared with my answer I
would give around that time period ago. I probably would do something
selfish too.

After one got some children and/or love ones, then I guess one become more
fearful of risks. That's why I still think one shouldn't contact soldiers
while they are still at war, not saying I think there should be any war in
the first place.

> The first thing that comes to mind when reading that: what changes the
> nature of a (wo)man?

I answered "regret" and I still believe in it fully.

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In article <iqwuo8i9cfe2.1fydtv0knquuk.dlg@40tude.net>,
citizenashi@yahoo.com says...
> Eek! thehawk wrote:
> > Cape Dweller says...
> >> thehawk wrote:
> <snip>
> >>> However, ever the one to cause waves (and keep them going, especially if I
> >>> think it might give people something to think about), those who disagree,
> >>> I ask you this: if you were to find out that six months from this minute
> >>> you will be dead (with no chance for resurrection this time), where do you
> >>> focus your energies? Why?
> >>
> >> I don't disagree, but I'll give it a shot anyway.
> >>
> >> If you had asked me at least 3 1/2 years ago, then certainly things would
> >> have been different. I really can't say for sure what I would have done,
> >> probably blown all my savings on a permanent trip to South America or
> >> something. However, now that I have two small children to look out for
> >> that would be extremely selfish. Instead I would probably try to find a
> >> way to provide for them once I'm gone, which may involve working long,
> >> hard hours at any job that gives the most pay. Or it may mean robbing a
> >> bank (although that's much riskier) :)
>
> I think my answer would be very different too compared with my answer I
> would give around that time period ago. I probably would do something
> selfish too.
>
> After one got some children and/or love ones, then I guess one become more
> fearful of risks. That's why I still think one shouldn't contact soldiers
> while they are still at war, not saying I think there should be any war in
> the first place.
>
> > The first thing that comes to mind when reading that: what changes the
> > nature of a (wo)man?
>
> I answered "regret" and I still believe in it fully.
>
>
My answer was (and still is) 'experience'.

-thehawk
Fallen Angel Dragon, UDIC
 
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On Sun, 17 Apr 2005 23:49:11 GMT, Ashikaga <citizenashi@yahoo.com> wrote:

>I answered "regret" and I still believe in it fully.

There is no such thing as regret. Not unless there is such a thing as
plain old gret first.

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On Sun, 17 Apr 2005 17:56:26 -0700, thehawk <thehawk5150at@hotmaildot.com>
wrote:

>My answer was (and still is) 'experience'.

Yeah, I think that is what I chose. It encompasses all the other
depending on how you think about it.

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Eek! Cape Dweller wrote:
> Ashikaga wrote:
>
>> Do you guys find a good correlationship bewteen the meaning of your life
>> and the work you do?
>
> Hmm... NO.
>
> Then again I've been on parental leave for 6 months, I hardly remember
> what I was doing :)
>
> I think being a college professor would be a pretty sweet job, and I could
> see myself throwing my passions right into it. Of course it would depend
> on what I was teaching...

Being a high school teacher would just be very distressing.

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