Yikes, I hadn't said thanks yet to faalin. That worked for the question I asked.
Now I'm finding I still don't have quite what I want.
I want to copy a directory and its subdirectories to a backup drive. It works without subdirectories.
But /s is supposed to add subdirectories, but copy *.* dest:\backupdir /d /s gets an error.
Also one variation I tried was getting overwrite confirmation prompts, this shouldn't be overwriting?