1. Sockets are a component on the Motherboard (MoBo). A 920 requires a 1366 socket. A 750 requires a 1156 socket. In general, you want 1366 over the 1156 if:
a) You will run programs that use multiple threads are a lot of multitasking
b) You anticipate a future upgrade to a hexacore processor some time between March 16, 2010 and the next few years.
c) You can take advanatatge of triple channel memory which the haxacores will be able to do at a greater extent than the quad cores
d) You anticipate using high bandwidth devices like professional RAID, SAS, SATAIII
e) You anticipate using multiple hi end GFX cards
2. IIRC, the OC record is around 8 Ghz using LN2. A good 24/7 target for the 920 (2.66 "stock") is 3.6 - 3.8 w/ all BIOS features enabled (i.e. HT). For gaming, ya can disable HT and leave most other BIOS settings alone and hit 4.2 - 4.4 Ghz
3. Multitasking pushes you to 1366.
4. Adobe products are known to utilize multiple threads as are design programs.
5. No if anything, the other way around.
6. As good as anything else.
7. I'd take the 920 over the 965?
As to the rest .....
-Forget Vista
-The 1st place you should start is picking a good Case / PSU as it serves as the basis for everything else. If you think you might ever go with a 2nd or 3rd GFX card, and you are going to overclock, then a full tower case is highly recommended. The best choices available today are:
Antec 1200 / Antec CP-850 - This combo uses the somewhat uniusual CPX form factor (common to only 5 cases to date) which allows for slightly larger PSU's which, with the added room, can run more effficiently and cooler. The PSU is placed at the bottom of the case and therefore the PSU intake comes from outside the case air rather than heated CPU air. It also allows manufacturer to produce and extremely high quality PSU which is also very quiet while drastically reducing cost. Note that a CPX form factor case will fit a ATX form factor PSU but a CPX form factor PSU will not normally fit in an ATX form Factor case.
The 1200 / CP-850 combo costs $244 at newegg.
http://www.newegg.com/Product/ComboDealDetails.aspx?ItemList=Combo.335367
The alternate to this full tower combo is the HAF 932 / Corsair HX850 which goes from $340 - $360
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Productcompare.aspx?Submit=ENE&N=2010090007%2050001333%201054808289&bop=And&ActiveSearchResult=True&CompareItemList=N82E16811119213%2CN82E16811119160
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16817139011
If you must have a mid tower....these combos are available for $180
The Antec 900 / EA-650
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16811129064
HAF 922 / Corsair TX650 ($210 - $10 MIR - $20 MIR)
NOTE: Antec, Coolermaster, thermaltake, etc all had hot new products at CES which are due to be released on mid March. The Antec Dark Fleet series looks particularly interesting.
-CPU - The 920 is the populist's choice. While many will argue that anything above the 920 is a waste cause the 920 can be OC'd to 940 , 950, 965, 975 "stock" speeds....it also must be recognized that given the same BCLK, the higher CPU multipliers on the more expensive CPU's result in higher OC's.
NOTE: the 930 is right around the corner and the 1st hexacore hits on march 16.
-MoBo - With new CPU's arriving, it's that time of year when new MoBos hit the shelves. Instant case of Buyer's Remorse when you go out and buy the Rampage II Extreme and then see the Rampage III Extreme drop 2 weeks later. With DX11 putting what THG called a "colossal" hit in GFX card performance, I think it's a given that any card made today will likely be humbled by the more demanding games of XMas 2011. If you agree, a MoBo with Xfire / SLI capability should be a given....personally I wouldn't build w/o the capability to do 3 cards, one of which might be a dedicated PhysX card.
-Memory - Get DDR3-1600 at the lowest CAS # you can afford. The CAS 6 Mushkin Redline series go for $240ish in 3 x 2GB, Corsair CAS 7 at about $180ish
-Hard Drives - Check out the performance charts and pick whatever 500 GB per platter drive performs best under your usage patterns. The WD Black 2 TB is a good choice but at smaller capacities, you are limited to the Seagate 7200.12 or the Spinpoint F3. The 7200.12 excels in gaming, multimedia and pictures whereas the F3 wins at music and movie maker. See the comparisons here (copy past link in manually, link won't work in forum):
(http://www.tomshardware.com/charts/2009-3.5-desktop-hard-drive-charts/compare,1006.html?prod[2371]=on&prod[2770]=on)
Also look at the new HD's here including the Seagate SATA III XT (not that the new interface will speed things up but it is the quickest of the 3 drives in the article in application performance)
http://www.tomshardware.com/reviews/HDD-6Gbit,2528.html
GFX Cards - Market's a but whacked this year w/ nVidia missing the pre XMas release of fermi cards. OTOH, ATI's been stifled by an inability to get enough cards to market, resulting in proces well above MSRP for both the new DX11 cards as well as skyrocketing prices on older generation cards. nVidia's obviously not exactly hurting w/ GTX 260's selling at $50-60 above what they were 3 months ago.
http://www.tomshardware.com/news/nvidia-financials-GPU-quadro-tegra,9703.html
Nvidia this week reported revenue of $982.5 million for the fourth quarter of fiscal 2010 ended Jan. 31, 2010, up 9 percent from the previous quarter and more than double the $481.1 million reported in the same period a year earlier. Quarter on quarter, desktop GPU revenue was up 19 percent, notebook GPU revenue was up 27
In the December and January GFX card roundups, THG had no winner in the $380 and up categories but gave "Honorable Mentions" to the 5870, 295 GTX and 5970 in their respective price categories. The 5870 is $30 more than it was in November, the 295 is up $65 and the 5970 is up $100 since then. Given that they are all well up in price, I can't quite fathom why the price category between the $400 and $680 price points was dropped from the roundup. Perhaps because supply has just about dried up is my best guess.
So, unless you totally have no interest in Dx11, I would cross the 295 off my shopping list and wait to see what fermi's release brings to the table. Grab something like a 1 GB 250 to serve ya for the time being, and then once the market settles in say may - June, grab or or 2 cards in Xfire / SLI and use the 250 as a dedicated PhysX card.
HS & fans - Since ya asking about overclocking, ya must be thinking about an aftermarket heat sink. Expect to invest between $50 for a good budget solution like the Xigmatek S1283 to about $90 for the Prolimatech Megahalems. Check out these rankings and pick something from the top 3 or 4
http://www.silentpcreview.com/Recommended_Heatsinks
http://www.frostytech.com/top5heatsinks.cfm#INTELHEATSINK
http://benchmarkreviews.com/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=371&Itemid=62&limit=1&limitstart=15
Pick a TIM from the top few here:
http://www.hwreviewlabs.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=64%3Amega-44-thermal-paste-round-up&catid=32%3Around-ups&Itemid=47&limitstart=3
http://www.xbitlabs.com/articles/coolers/display/thermal-interface-roundup_10.html#sect1
http://benchmarkreviews.com/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=138&Itemid=1&limit=1&limitstart=3
For performance and ease of installation, here's what I'm putting in new builds Mega w/ IC Diamond TIM and twin Scythe PWMfans (make sure ya MoBo can handle the fan wattage). ($95 for the HS, TIM, two PWM fans and a Y cable splitter). Skip the splitter and 2nd fan if your max OC will be moderate (under 3.5 ish)
http://www.frozencpu.com/products/8807/cpu-pro-01/Prolimatech_Megahalems_Rev_B_Intel_CPU_Heatsink_LGA_775_1156_1366_AM2_AM2_AM3_Hot_Item.html
http://www.frozencpu.com/products/7038/thr-41/Innovation_Cooling_Diamond_7_Carat_Thermal_Compound_-_15_Grams.html?id=BZWnrfIC
http://www.frozencpu.com/products/10026/fan-639/Scythe_Slip_Stream_120mm_x_25mm_PWM_Fan_-_SY1225SL12LM-P.html?tl=g36c365s936
http://www.frozencpu.com/products/8418/cab-150/FrozenCPU_PMW_Y_Splitter_Cable.html