You should be able to sit down for an hour and play a game and actually accomplish something. Your at 6 months, give it another couple of months. I absolutely loved the game in the beginning. Eventually I stayed due to the friends I had made or followed from other MUD's. Everquest is popular by default. It's the only game of it's kind out right now and it is pretty good but it's horribly flawed. PVP is a joke, who the hell wants to lose some item they had to camp for 10 hours. The higher levels of the game require you to raid the planes. No matter who your with Planar raids are flat out boring and long. Anyway I could go on forever but I'll shut up. I apologize for jumping all over your post as well. It's just some old pent up frustration.
Anyways Everquest could be viewed as a sleeper even due to it's popularity. Many people wont try a game in that genre, and could be pleasantly suprised.
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