Reading this complete topic for the first time now, it makes me sad. Not angry, not cynical, not appalled, but sad. My apologies for making this long reply, I hope you can bear with me to read it through.
Whatever is following and however you are interpreting it, DH, it is not meant as an attack, it is meant as an illustration of how I came to my personal judgement with regard to your character.
I've read a lot of stuf about proving things, as we all know to prove things in this volatile environment is extremely difficult, where people can change content after posting it, and where quotes are used back and forth taken out of context, either by accident or by malicious intent.
My point is, I cannot really judge people here by content or actions unless there is 100% proof that can be validated. Heck, even if we can "prove" that posts were made from the same IP, then people can claim the log was falsified. So I'm not going to use that angle because it's been tried before and it failed.
I'm going by how I've experienced things here, what it dit to me and what I think it did to others, and how that made me come to a conclusion.
You make a big deal out of lots of small things. This is just another example.
To me it looks like you are doing exactly the same. Why is it so hard to accept a judgement call by the moderators that a specific signature is offensive, even if you personally disagree with that call? Aren't there grander things to worry about?
Perhaps there are bigger things but they are not explicitly stated?
I have wondered what all the fuss was about when Mozz left the forum, while you stated there was nothing unusual going on. People don't just leave when there's nothing going on. Mozz stayed after he got hit by Kathrina. He left after that incident. Maybe it was nothing to you, but it apparently was a big deal to Mozz.
For me personally the turning point was the following. In that topic where SoD went ballistic over Rob's avatar which, incidentally you can find
here (and it was not hard to find either), you stated the following to SoD:
Appologize since people are seriously pissed off and that's about the only thing you can do to calm them down.
I challenged you there with:
This is weird and wrong. SoD should apologize if he feels he crossed the line and insulted Rob. An apology is not a tool, it is the expression of a feeling of sorrow. Don't bother with apologies if you're not feeling sorry.
You did not respond to that at all. Maybe you were too busy answering others, and this did not make a lasting impression on you, or maybe you deliberately ignored it because you had no come back to it, or you really did not understand the point I was making. Whatever was the case, it then became obvious, at least to me, that you do not worry about whatever methods you deploy to get to your objective. Any means is obviously acceptable for your personal goals.
Whether you publicly state what your goals are or whether you prefer a hidden agenda, the bottom line is, any means available is acceptable, and that is where you and I have a different opinion. I also have a preference for playing with open cards, agenda's on the table but I'm not naive in that fashion and I know that reality is often different and sometimes it will be harder to reach a specific objective when it is out in the open, and I can accept the fact that people prefer not to speak their minds if they think it will hinder them. However, if people find out they've been used, don't expect them to react favorably. People don't like to be used.
I also
challenged you in the PHUK acronym topic, again I never got a response to that. Again you used someone for your own objectives, and again in my personal opinion a trivial detail that you like to blow up to gigantic proportions. Noone was having a problem with it until you brought it up. You hurt Phukface in the process, you did not care about that either (or did not think of that, just as bad in my opinion). Phukface actually took down a reply in which he stated he felt hurt (in the Smurf Village topic it was, I think, could be elsewhere), so maybe he thinks differently today. I hope you guys can talk it out and be friends again. But for me the damage is done, you obviously don't care about your methods that you deploy in order to prove yourself right, and to get to your objective(s).
I'm not going through all the trouble of trying to prove things (as I said earlier that would be kind of pointless), I just tell you how I've seen it and what it means to me.
If you could for once answer me on what I have challenged you on previously and are challenging you on now again, that might shed different light on things, at least it will give others, if they made it as far as here, that have read my observations so far, also the other side of the coin so that they can make up their own mind.
It is never too late to change one's mind, but it will take a lot of plausible explanations from your side to make me change mine.
I will also put this into a PM as to make sure you did not miss this post, however, if I only get a PM from you and not a reply in this topic, then I reserve the right to post PM replies on this post here (won't do it right away, but I'll notify you through PM in a day or two if you have not responded here before that time).