You don't need to go to 3.6ghz to get you ram at 1:1.
Scale your OC back to 3.0ghz (9 x 334) and set your ram to "sync".
You'll find you have a ram speed of 667mhz at 1:1 (2 x 667 dual channel = 1336) (4 x334 FSB = 1336).
Thats what I'm running on the same board as you. Totally stable and fast, and stock voltage.
3.6Ghz ia an extreme OC to attempt even on a good chip.
Do you get better bench scores when having it synced? Why not just have it unlinked and clock your proc where you want it, and not underclock your ram?
All syncing does is ensure that the FSB: RAM speed are always kept at the right speeds, ie matching.
There's no virtue in having the ram speed faster without increasing the fsb as it will actually slow the system as the cpu will have to skip memory cycles in order to communicate. This could in fact slow the system. Hence why 1:1 is regarded as the ideal ratio, its becuase the FSB and memory cycles always coincide.
I could clokc the processor higher, but at 3.2 or so its unstable and as I'm on stock cooling I don't want to up the vcore or start loosing the memory timings. Yes the extra speed might be worth it, but the extra temp and all the hassle of having to keep resetting the BIOS isn't.
As for benches, it performs superb at the speed its at with memory and fsb at 1:1.
21,847 Dhrystone and 18,282 Whestone in Si Sandra.
That puts it slightly behind a 6800 Xeon in Dhry but slightly ahead in Whet. So overall performance is around the 6800 Xeon mark which is a significantly faster chip.
A standard E6600 score around 4,000 points less on both tests.