Question I have a good PC but almost all games lag, stutter, and crash. What can I do?

[The Chizzler]

So I have an Alienware M17 R5 AMD with the following:

AMD Ryzen 9 6900HX with Radeon Graphics NVIDIA GeForce RTX 3070 Ti Laptop GPU I just copied and pasted some things. Almost every game I play lags, stutters crashes, etc. Every so often I contact and support and I'll have a BIOS update and that seems to help for a little while but by making the issues occur less frequently but I still have issues. Is this normal? Does everyone always have issues with games even when you lower the graphic settings? Could it just be the games being poorly made?