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foamy wrote:
> In article <Xns9607F05EBC454knight37m@130.133.1.4>
> , Knight37 <knight37m@email.com> wrote:
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>>>Stupid question Knight.
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>>Not a stupid question. She was NOT 7, he was NOT 27. She was 18, remember?
>>If there's something "morally wrong" with an older person marrying someone
>>much younger what's the point at which it becomes immoral? Society says 18.
>>I see nothing immoral here.
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> I'm sorry, I shouldn't have said it was a stupid question. She was
> not 18 when he started ' courting ' her--she was 15 and in most,
> if not all, jurisdictions, a minor.
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> But my post was intended to raise the exact point you make above..at what
> point does the relationship become unacceptable to society. The 7 / 27 is
> the same age difference as 70 / 90 but it clearly isn't the same, and
> demonstrates that age_difference_ isn't as important as the age of the
> younger person.
A 7 year old is not sexually mature, so biologically it is pointless.
Society also sees this as a corruption of an innocent by someone who
knows how to take advantage of the situation. Further, society doesn't
feel that a 15 year old is emotionally mature, but is sexually mature.
Taking advantage of a 15 year old is harder than a 7 year old, because a
15 year old has life tools and reasoning that a 7 year old just doesn't
have.
So, the twenty-seven year old is able to completely manipulate a
situation where a seven year old doesn't have the tools to comprehend
what is happening. However, the 15 year old can, at some level, control
the situation, but is unable to fully comprehend the emotional aspects
of the relationship.
I'm not saying it is right, I'm just saying it is different.