Blah, my bro. They did refund the guy his money that is what he is pe-od about he wanted the package. :>) They didn't rip him off his package just got returned.
Re the feedback thing. I have heard that as well about the buyer reviews being cut out occasionally if they were negative or whatnot. However I also often see someone placing a review based on hearsay or because they did not look at the description carefully or they did not read the directions. I don't think the buyer reviews are screened all that well to start with. Occasionally people post and ask a question about the product they don't even have for instance.
However, the buyer reviews are not the same as the ratings through bizrate and other companies if I am not mistaken. I believe they are handled via third party regarding your order as a whole and buying experience. Otherwise why wouldn't every one of these vendors slant their reviews, he he? So although it may be a pisser they didn't post your three rating for that mouse, I don't think that has anything whatsoever to do with their bizrate rating. Correct me if I am wrong on that, but the bizrate feedback is more like a survey type deal, no? (But then again I am going on hearsay, he he:>) I haven't filled mine out yet because I wanted to wait till I had all my parts ordered and set up rather than just rating them on the timely service and promt delivery.
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As to the orginal poster. I understand your pain. It was easy enough to order from new egg at my apartment at grad school. I always used to wince back home in rural Virginia when I would see "won't deliver to po boxes". And it was usually something like a rebate or something that didn't seem to make sense to me why not (I guess fraud prevention on the rebate?). Anyway I know that is a pain in the but. But I also have to say I have looked through a lot of ratings on these online vendors over the past 6 months and of the vendors that look decent (not the really scaby ones that really are bad) it pains me to see about 90% of the bad reviews have to do with a situation like yours. Someone will give some little company that is probably busting its *ss to stay competitive with some giant like new a egg a 1 becuse they were too f***ing stupid/lazy/spoiled to read the rules. I shouldn't put it that way because it sounds ugly but it is a form of shifting the blame, let me say. A company like new egg that ships 10,000 orders a day and has a solid rep can stand to absorb a few bad reviews here and there. A small company that ships out 100 orders a day may have their ratings reduced a level by a few of these. And once that green smiley face goes yellow, I ain't buying from there.
I see alot of people mad because their shipping address is different from their billing address, which with all the identity theft going on they should be greatful the company is checking rather than just shipping indescriminately.
I gotta say, bro, your issue is more a you reading and delivery service communicating issue. Granted New Egg would have been better off not to ship the order, however at least it gave you the option to use your tracking number, locate your package and go pick it up. I imagine if you had been right on top of it you could have done it that way and still gotten your package before they sent it back. I think ups comes by three times before they ship back. Not sure about fed ex. Perhaps fed ex just shipped it back as a matter of course when they saw the po box though? At any rate they should be able to deliver to your physical address even if it is out in the boonies were I am from.
I know you are peod, not intending to bust your balls, just saying that if you got a promt refund there really isn't any harm done except you have to wait again which is a pain.
Just imagine the fly by night company that stalls/never gives/or is beligerant about the refund. I mean after all these companies are in business to make money. That is the reason why any company is in business whether it is potato chips or computer chips they are selling, right? New egg had to pay to ship you a package and then they sent you a refund because your address was either undeliverable or ups decided not to hold it or you procrastinated picking it up. Any way you look at it new egg lost money on shipping and got nothing. Now you are going to give them a bad review? You should chalk it up to experience instead, my friend.
Peace