qvl is joke
i rotate venders and never look at qvl and build 3-4 systems per week myself at max - or 1 a month min
while i do stock many kinds and somtimes you may need a certain brand that will work better - the fact is the better ram works in almost all mobos and the crap is the problem the lists are worthless for the most part.
go to newegg and read the posts
if the ram is 50-60 rated 5 and 70-80% rated 4 and 5 - then its good
most problems with ram is with the user, or the ram is low end
good ram: muskin, ocz, corsair, super talent, patriot
not sure crucial, patiort (ya 2 times)
not so good: gskill, adata,
THE GOLDEN RULE OF RAM -- WORKS FOR ALL RAM!
You want low voltage, low latency ram, mid speed
4-4-4 1.8v to 1.9v or 4-4-3 1.9-2v ddr800 is always good ddr2
2-2-2-5 ddr400 is always good ddr
7-7-7 ddr1600 ddr3 1.8-1.9v