I would assume at some level they are shared but I doubt it is a bottleneck. It is common now days to run fiber at 10g rates or higher. In most cases ISP lease dark pairs of fiber so they can run it at what ever speed they like...just the cost of the equipment which has come down a lot. This is how many cable isp increased their rates so much they replaced they just upgraded the fiber equipment.
The last mile problem almost always is in the coax part of the network mostly because of how much slower it is.