aford10 :
When you've found that one, nobody else matters. That thing that they can take care of is superficial. I don't want to get too deep, but our lives should be defined by what we do. I pray that your wife recovers and that you have a long life together.
I 100 percent agree
During the past year my wifey has subtly said that if I found a "mistress" on the side "what she doesn't know doesn't hurt her"
BUT what I would know would hurt me
I can't imagine if faced with her on her deathbed how I would feel being unfaithful to her
There is a local pharmacy where there is a twenty-something (I am 41) that is always flirting
will follow me around and tells me multiple times what time she gets off of work
she is cute
one night she tells me she gets off in 8 minutes
so I sat in the parking lot in my car and had an ethical (? moral) dilemma
after five minutes exactly
the thought "no good will come of this" entered my mind
so I turned the key and left the store
I pray constantly
from the biggest to smallest things in my life
Every day I thank the Lord for another day
I am blessed for what I have