Looking at different CPU coolers I can never find the wattage rating.
I ran into the same issue when researching Heatsinks. Some manufacturers list the TDP rating while others don't (Noctua, Scythe, etc.) I contacted Noctua to find out why that is the case and they gave me the following explanation (sorry in advance for the long read):
"The problem is that a cooler might be able to handle 250W TDP on CPU XX, however on CPU XY it was only capable of cooling 110W TDP CPUs. To use our coolers as a reference: The NH-D15 can handle about 130 Watts on the latest Ryzen 3000 CPUs while it can handle up to 400 Watts on the Ryzen Threadripper 2990WX CPU. Why the huge difference?
Many reasons for that - one being the different CPU DIEs; another would be the bigger heatspreader on the DIEs; and yet another reason is the used thermal interface material (TIM). And that is just to name a few of all the reasons for that. Now if we would start selling our NH-D15 with a "400W TDP" label, ... well I guess you can see that problem there. That would be yet another value that is not helping to compare coolers. It's just not that simple.
To sum it up: Noctua is not totally against submitting (peak) stats, but we hate the streamlined way those are published today. We try not to follow this trend - but are focusing on real world scenarios tests like independent reviews that are - in our eyes - the primary source for customers to see whether our products work well or not."
While it makes sense, I'm like you I guess: I want to see a number, even if it's an estimation, so I can have an idea of how much load the Heatsink can handle. Simply providing a TDP Compatibility Guide--as Noctua does--isn't enough since what they may consider to be suitable I may not. If my CPU is rated for 105W, and I want to only consider Heatsinks that can handle 200W or more, I have no way of knowing whether a particular Heatsink they suggest meets MY requirement, even though their TDP Guide says it's compatible. For all I know the Heatsink they suggest may only be able to handle 150W.
I did reply, giving them my PC build specs and asked if they'd give me a rough estimate of the TDP Value for the Heatsink I was considering purchasing from them, and guess what, even though it could handle the CPU TDP rating, it didn't meet my TDP requirement. So I looked elsewhere.