From Intel specification page on the E3-1241 V3 we have the following thermal solution specification:
By searching in the Intel's datasheet on the Xeon E3-1200 V3 series, we find the following for the PCG 2013D specification:
TCase = temperature measured at the geometric center of the CPU package.
As seen in the table, the corresponding TCase-max for your CPU would be the 4C(4 core) 80W TDP model, which is 73C.
So, your CPU cooler should be able to keep the E3-1241 V3 under that temperature in normal operating conditions.
I'd recommend having a margin and staying lower than 73C on that Xeon at all times... you might be able to run it at a higher temperature for an amount of time, but you should just follow their specifications for the longevity of your CPU.
EDIT: Make sure that you're running Prime95 with AVX disabled when stress testing your CPU. AVX enabled Prime95 will put an unrealistic load on your processor.