I too gave up on the jack after 2 failed repair attempts. So I jury-rigged the expansion connector with parts from Radio Shack and it's now working good.
I have 2 post-mortem observations to share:
- I had replaced the entire motherboard with one from eBay (laptop aid). The replacement board had the same damn problem - wiggling the chord made the lightning bolt flicker on and off. So after I touched up the 4 solder points, I could not get the lightning bolt to light up at all. Did I fry something? I honestly thought I had not over heated the points and had certainly improved the integrity of the connection. What gives!?
- (this may have been discussed, but... ) I'm guessing that the expansion port is not designed to supply power, which is why the lightning bolt does not light up. It also behaves badly (powers off spontaneously) when the battery is installed. But hey, for $4 in parts and not having to take it all apart again, I'LL TAKE IT!
- Dan C.