With the current design of Intel processors, as well as computer systems in general, it is not possible to eliminate the incidence of contact fretting in the area you have pictured.
You CAN slow the speed of fretting by increasing the clamping pressure of the processor to the processor socket, reducing the temperature of the contact surface to 60°C, reducing the humidity of the environment, reducing the vibration within the computer case (implying a move to SSDs, eliminating fans, and moving pumps and radiators outside the case), and running the processor (and memory) at lower voltages.
An argument can be made for the application of non-conductive silicone grease to the processor socket, to lubricate the contact surfaces, but the question remains as to whether the socket materials are compatible with silicone grease. Doing so may just make the situation worse, so I wouldn't recommend it for any system that you are not willing to sacrifice to an experiment.
Processors having pins that mate into a ZIF socket are less prone to the failure mode, but are not immune to it; so, moving to a processor that uses pins will reduce the problem somewhat.
All-in-all, being aware of contact fretting, and structuring your maintenance cycle in a way that accounts for it, is probably your best move; and, it looks like you were on your way to observing some weird issues with the system, had you not decided to do some upgrade work now.