slightly of topic, i also have a 965 be but runs as stock.
with the stock cooler i was getting temps around 32 on idle and when gaming (bf3) it was hitting around 45.
i didnt have a problem with the temp, my problem was with the noise the stock cooler made- sounds like a jet taking off.
changed it over for a zalman cnps 9900 max, now sits idle at 26 and gaming hits 40 at max, this is with the resister in place too so its on the slower speed.