Corsair Vengeance has a bit of a reputation on user forums, which a good search will probably find.
Similarly, some people dislike Asus mobos, due (I believe) to poor after sales service amongst other things.
I have two recent Asus boards, one with a 3800X and four 16GB Corsair Vengeance DIMMs, the other with a 7950X and two Kingston Fury 32GB DIMMs. Both machines have 64GB total.
The old adage, two DIMMs are better than four DIMMs applies to many systems, especially when overclocking at XMP/EXPO/DOCP settings.
If you're having problems, disable DOCP and set the RAM back to JEDEC default (usually 4800MT/s for DDR5). If the system seems stable, boot from a MemTest86 USB stick and run a complete scan (several hours). Even with only one error, drop the RAM speed to 3800MT/s and run MemTest again.
Ideally, you should go out and purchase a single kit of 4 matched DIMMs, if you're dead set on running 4 DIMMs. If you buy two kits each containing 2 DIMMs, even if they have the same part number, they won't be exactly the same. The individual memory chips are "binned" and it's unlikely both pairs of DIMMs will be identical.
It's for this reason I bought 2 x 32GB Kingston Fury DDR5 DIMMs for my 7950X. I was lucky when I added two more Corsair Vengeance 16GB DIMMs to my 3800X, but they're only running a mild overclock of 3000MT/s. My DDR5 is running at JEDEC 4800MT/s. I value stability above speed and the kit is only rated at 4800MT/s.