[citation][nom]lamorpa[/nom]Why would I (and anyone else) find it hard to believe that, while mourning the murder of your own child or spouse, you would first think to "give my own life" to defend the right of someone to post nasty racist comments on their loved one's memorial site. The idea is simply idiotic. No, you would not do that.[/citation]
I know sounds odd, right? But I totally would too. I would be pretty pissed possibly even angry and sad too but violence only begets violence when you feel the need for retribution.
Also come to think of it, why do we bond (as in marry) and take an oath upon sticking together in good & in bad times (linguistically calling upon the very realistic idea that marriage is also about going through bad moments). But always deny ourselfs the possibility of parting with good AND bad memories from a person we were close to?
Does it not seem a bit overly dramatic maybe even masochistic to only to cite the good memories at a funeral?
I think people are very sensitive to this subject which explains the rather emotional responses this topic has generated.